Problem Solving For Couples
When we fall in love or perceive to fall in love, initially
we may have been attracted to each other because of external
traits (looks, dress & personality). They say love is blind
and after awhile these attractions may not be strong enough
to keep our bond together. That's when we start to take a closer
look at each other. We begin to take a closer look at our communications
and behaviours especially if we are co-habitating. We begin
to examine each other's core values, such as honesty, respect,
faithfulness, compassion and integrity. The way we treat our
partner and the way our partner treats us becomes paramount
in the relationship. It is usually at this point in the relationship
when someone is perceived to, or may in fact have violated the
unwritten values. It is usually a violation of these values
that cause early conflict in relationships. Don't forget no
one is perfect, "until you fall in love." The search
for that perfect mate can be very challenging. It's during these
times that our expectations are very high and our opinions,
objectives and behaviours sometimes arrive at a crossroads.
This is known as the first serious conflict, disagreement, argument,
fight or lovers quarrel.
All couples have some type of conflict. It is common. The question
is, "Do I want to address the conflict, try to resolve
our problems and continue the relationship?" If the answer
is yes, this e-book can assist you.
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